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Coping with self harm

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The following is from the ''Young people and Self Harm a National Inquiry''

• Self-harm is a term used to describe deliberately injuring oneself through a variety of means such as cutting, poisoning, burning.
• The most common methods of self-harm involve the repeated cutting of the skin, but equally may include burning, scalding, banging or scratching one's own body, ingesting small amounts of toxic substances or objects to cause discomfort or damage.
• 1 in 10 teenagers self-harm
• More than 24,000 teenagers are admitted to hospital in the UK each year after deliberately harming themselves. Most have taken overdoses or cut themselves.

National Charity ''YoungMinds'' makes various suggestions to carers which inlcude:

• Keep an open mind - don't judge or jump to conclusions
• Make time to listen and take them seriously
• Help them to find their own way of managing their problems
• Help them work out who else can help
• Offer to go with them to tell someone, or offer to tell someone for them
• Don't be offended if they don't want to handle things your way
• Don't tease them - respect their feelings
• Support any positive steps they take

You can also get more information from:

Young people and Self Harm a National Inquiry

YoungMinds - Friends and family - how you can help

Young People and Self Harm a National Inquiry - Alternatives to Self-harm

The National Self Harm Network - a national organisation to support survivors and people who self-harm.

Talk to someone?
SELF HARM ALLIANCE - includes a telephone helpline for people who self-harm and their carers: 01242 578820

NHSN Forum - includes a section for Family and Friends

There are people who can help:

West Sussex Carers Network